If a husband can have an affair and betray the woman he married, then he is capable of telling multiple lies, both to the wife and mistress.Bottom Line: Unless a woman is a sociopath, she feels guilty for crossing the line, just like any normal human being would. She Probably Never Planned On Being A Mistress Every adult is accountable for their own actions -- of that there is no doubt.
It's not likely on the goal list of any woman to get wrapped up in an affair with a married man and potentially lose her career, credibility, friends, or -- in some extreme cases -- her life because of it.
Some mistresses even have children with their married lovers. There's no doubt that a mistress feels envious that her lover's relationship with his wife is not a secret to the world like hers most likely is.
One thing that many mistresses crave more than anything is validation that her relationship with her lover is real.
That said, many mistresses are totally unaware that their lover is married.
Many men go to great lengths to hide the fact that they are married.